Continued from the earlier Yes You Can
There are instances where people are just led by their emotions and the opinion of strangers. They are much bothered about the comments that other people pose on them. Actually I pity those people who are a victim of those strangers.
Life offers you two choices. 1. You do it 2. You leave it
One said that "Try hard and do what you like, or else you will be forced to like what you do".
SO TO SUM UP
1. Dont get affected by Failures and even Success for that matter.
2. Try hard and achieve what you want to become
3. Dont ignore anybody coz they may be a pillar to you at any point in time
4. Success is a reward to sincerity
5. Look at Failures and Success in the same eye and heart
6. Failures are Success Delayed and Not Denied
7. Look at people who have achieved. They have come out after a long battle of struggle
8. History has recognized those who have fought with themselves, their personality, their efforts
Hence when you flunk it means that you are shaping your personality still better.
THIS POST IS SPECIALLY DEDICATED TO MY FRIEND WHO IS INTO THE PIT OF STRUGGLES.
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Monday, August 31, 2009
Saturday, August 15, 2009
How to Fight the evil in you? Part 2
If you had got to check out my previous post, I am taking a step forward in fulfilling the promise
Hi5 here you go...
1. Dont Open harsh words: Always in a conversation people tend to use harsh or abuse language just to compete the opposite person. One doesn't understand that there is always a factor called self-respect in each person similar to that of you. This might be easy to control but the our friend tongue doesn't help.
2. Don't go by what the wrong says: When you very well know that this kind of action can lead to big problems please dont do that. Often we do things that we very well know that it is not correct. For example you talk over an argument you tend to raise the voice unneccesarily knowing that the problem might aggrevate. You know you open shivering when you fight in an argument.
3. Giving up here is winning: Generally you must not give up in what ever you do. But to fight the evil out of you when you are in an argument you do a world of good by giving up to the other person. I focus on arguments because it is like converyance that the world does 80% of their time. Dont take me wrong. I do argue but that proved me that I was a duffer.
4. No complexes please! Superiority complex and inferiority complex are two things that ruins relationships to the core. Take 100 cases you will see either ego, complex or misunderstanding taking seats. You lose something holding your breadth rather give up here to sustain a good rapport. Some might want to counter this issue. But take my words when you find the relationship is worth holding on to by giving up your complexes you can do good by revamping the lost bonding.
5. First Listen to be Listened: Being patient can lead you to many positive results. At this instance I would wish to narrate you a drama from real life.
There was a couple who live life simple and peaceful. The wife was seen talking to a guy by the husband on a theatre front. Immediately the husband broke out to anger and filed for divorce papers and registered the case with a lawyer. On the wife returning to the house she walked in and hugged the husband and said "Darling today I saw your brother with another girl in the theatre front and was warning him". Husband was shocked to listen that and immediately hugged her and said, "Sorry honey, It was my mistake". The wife was confused and shocked to the see the legal papers on the table. Hence listen to others to be listened.
Hope you try fight out the evil in you. Drop in your comments if you find me wrong somewhere
Hi5 here you go...
1. Dont Open harsh words: Always in a conversation people tend to use harsh or abuse language just to compete the opposite person. One doesn't understand that there is always a factor called self-respect in each person similar to that of you. This might be easy to control but the our friend tongue doesn't help.
2. Don't go by what the wrong says: When you very well know that this kind of action can lead to big problems please dont do that. Often we do things that we very well know that it is not correct. For example you talk over an argument you tend to raise the voice unneccesarily knowing that the problem might aggrevate. You know you open shivering when you fight in an argument.
3. Giving up here is winning: Generally you must not give up in what ever you do. But to fight the evil out of you when you are in an argument you do a world of good by giving up to the other person. I focus on arguments because it is like converyance that the world does 80% of their time. Dont take me wrong. I do argue but that proved me that I was a duffer.
4. No complexes please! Superiority complex and inferiority complex are two things that ruins relationships to the core. Take 100 cases you will see either ego, complex or misunderstanding taking seats. You lose something holding your breadth rather give up here to sustain a good rapport. Some might want to counter this issue. But take my words when you find the relationship is worth holding on to by giving up your complexes you can do good by revamping the lost bonding.
5. First Listen to be Listened: Being patient can lead you to many positive results. At this instance I would wish to narrate you a drama from real life.
There was a couple who live life simple and peaceful. The wife was seen talking to a guy by the husband on a theatre front. Immediately the husband broke out to anger and filed for divorce papers and registered the case with a lawyer. On the wife returning to the house she walked in and hugged the husband and said "Darling today I saw your brother with another girl in the theatre front and was warning him". Husband was shocked to listen that and immediately hugged her and said, "Sorry honey, It was my mistake". The wife was confused and shocked to the see the legal papers on the table. Hence listen to others to be listened.
Hope you try fight out the evil in you. Drop in your comments if you find me wrong somewhere
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
How to fight the evil in you?
Hi5 Steps to control evil and promote wisdom.
Backdrop
You pour a drop of water into the ocean and you can’t say or spot which drop that you poured into. Similarly you can’t identify which character of yours might irritate others or satiate others. Suppose you may let open something on a funny note that may end the other way round. You can’t help it. Suppose you stay much focused on your work and do not even spill a word out people mark you a zombie character. At all this drama you sometimes feel that it is getting on to your nerves. Ok. Trust me. I have come out with a formula that can possibly ease your mind off the tension of getting angry.
As I have mentioned earlier in my blog somewhere that there are persons in this world who want to strip your temperature high. Those people are simply bugs who enjoy the pain that you undergo.
I haven’t seen or experienced more in this world to come out with an answer. Rather I have observed that wherever the problem is it ends only in the same way. Guessed? With no solution. You fight out heavily advocating your point but there would be someone who could stand to the wrong deal.
I will narrate you an incident that happened to me. I am a car mania who wishes to speak and share information with my pals. I did the same way with one of them. We had a discussion as to the Accord car from Honda. I said it could be the best model from Honda. He immediately said “Machan (colloquial way to call a dear friend) Accord is from Hyundai and not from Honda”. I was shocked to have realized to have spoken to someone who was ignorant of which company that car was manufactured. Of course I don’t say that it was a blunder. People don’t realize that they are speaking something wrong unless proved to them heavily. I was very calm doing the same thing saying “Heh the car is from Honda and not Hyundai”. The trouble started here. Another guy who doesn’t even know how many wheels a car has came and broke out in the middle saying “Yep. Accord is from Hyundai and not from Honda”.
This raised my BP. After all the incident was over I realized that there was no conclusion. We dint arrive at a point. So what’s the point in fighting? It is very difficult for you to control your emotions when you are in an argument. That is because of the red star called EVIL in you. You have the power to control it but most often it doesn’t happen.
to be continued.........
Backdrop
You pour a drop of water into the ocean and you can’t say or spot which drop that you poured into. Similarly you can’t identify which character of yours might irritate others or satiate others. Suppose you may let open something on a funny note that may end the other way round. You can’t help it. Suppose you stay much focused on your work and do not even spill a word out people mark you a zombie character. At all this drama you sometimes feel that it is getting on to your nerves. Ok. Trust me. I have come out with a formula that can possibly ease your mind off the tension of getting angry.
As I have mentioned earlier in my blog somewhere that there are persons in this world who want to strip your temperature high. Those people are simply bugs who enjoy the pain that you undergo.
I haven’t seen or experienced more in this world to come out with an answer. Rather I have observed that wherever the problem is it ends only in the same way. Guessed? With no solution. You fight out heavily advocating your point but there would be someone who could stand to the wrong deal.
I will narrate you an incident that happened to me. I am a car mania who wishes to speak and share information with my pals. I did the same way with one of them. We had a discussion as to the Accord car from Honda. I said it could be the best model from Honda. He immediately said “Machan (colloquial way to call a dear friend) Accord is from Hyundai and not from Honda”. I was shocked to have realized to have spoken to someone who was ignorant of which company that car was manufactured. Of course I don’t say that it was a blunder. People don’t realize that they are speaking something wrong unless proved to them heavily. I was very calm doing the same thing saying “Heh the car is from Honda and not Hyundai”. The trouble started here. Another guy who doesn’t even know how many wheels a car has came and broke out in the middle saying “Yep. Accord is from Hyundai and not from Honda”.
This raised my BP. After all the incident was over I realized that there was no conclusion. We dint arrive at a point. So what’s the point in fighting? It is very difficult for you to control your emotions when you are in an argument. That is because of the red star called EVIL in you. You have the power to control it but most often it doesn’t happen.
to be continued.........
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