How to Fight the evil in you? Part 2

If you had got to check out my previous post, I am taking a step forward in fulfilling the promise
Hi5 here you go...
1. Dont Open harsh words: Always in a conversation people tend to use harsh or abuse language just to compete the opposite person. One doesn't understand that there is always a factor called self-respect in each person similar to that of you. This might be easy to control but the our friend tongue doesn't help.

2. Don't go by what the wrong says: When you very well know that this kind of action can lead to big problems please dont do that. Often we do things that we very well know that it is not correct. For example you talk over an argument you tend to raise the voice unneccesarily knowing that the problem might aggrevate. You know you open shivering when you fight in an argument.

3. Giving up here is winning: Generally you must not give up in what ever you do. But to fight the evil out of you when you are in an argument you do a world of good by giving up to the other person. I focus on arguments because it is like converyance that the world does 80% of their time. Dont take me wrong. I do argue but that proved me that I was a duffer.

4. No complexes please! Superiority complex and inferiority complex are two things that ruins relationships to the core. Take 100 cases you will see either ego, complex or misunderstanding taking seats. You lose something holding your breadth rather give up here to sustain a good rapport. Some might want to counter this issue. But take my words when you find the relationship is worth holding on to by giving up your complexes you can do good by revamping the lost bonding.

5. First Listen to be Listened: Being patient can lead you to many positive results. At this instance I would wish to narrate you a drama from real life.
There was a couple who live life simple and peaceful. The wife was seen talking to a guy by the husband on a theatre front. Immediately the husband broke out to anger and filed for divorce papers and registered the case with a lawyer. On the wife returning to the house she walked in and hugged the husband and said "Darling today I saw your brother with another girl in the theatre front and was warning him". Husband was shocked to listen that and immediately hugged her and said, "Sorry honey, It was my mistake". The wife was confused and shocked to the see the legal papers on the table. Hence listen to others to be listened.
Hope you try fight out the evil in you. Drop in your comments if you find me wrong somewhere